Some time ago, I organized a bridal shower of a friend who happens to have a fairly close relationship with me when I was still living in Sydney. To be honest at the time it undertakes to hold an event like this, I am a little scared because this is the first time I hosted. Fortunately, the event was a success and festive. Therefore, today I want to share Everything You Need to Know about Bridal Shower for your friend. Hope it helps ya!
1. Who should be her Host?
Maybe in ancient times, bridesmaids are required to hold this event for the friends. But it is not applicable in this day and age, anyone can hold the event, including siblings, or close family. The task of the host can say pretty much because he had to arrange when holding a bridal shower, anyone who is invited and also think about the road and the contents of the event so that everyone can enjoy the event.
When I decided to be a host at the event, the bridal shower the friends, I just realized that I only have one mutual friend with him. Thankfully a friend is willing to help me in contacting other friends.
2. What is the total budget you have?
Budget is the most important factor in making the event a bridal shower. Because later that budget will be allocated to locations, gift, cake, and decorations. Remember, budget is a sensitive issue, so you should ask around to other people for a reasonable price for an event bridal shower.
At that time, I invited about 14 people and every person is required to pay IDR 350 thousand. Of the total money collected, I began to allocate the budget, such as 50% will be spent on food, 25% for prizes (in the form of lingerie), 10% for presentation, 15% for the decorations I made for myself (Go DIY! Hihi).
3. Where you have to hold a bridal shower?
After knowing the total amount of money you have, start looking for location. For those, you can choose to have it anywhere! You don't need glued if they hold a bridal shower should be in a restaurant or cafe that is beautiful. If you and your friends want to hold in the Safari Park, go ahead!
But there are some things that should be considered such as the location of the place of residence of the guests. It is worth choosing a location that is known to many people so they do not confusion. Really not funny right if there are that dont come because it does not know the way. In addition, you should also consider whether you need a private room or not. My own time was held the event at the Penang Bistro, Grand Indonesia. The reason is in addition to the restaurant located in the heart of Jakarta, there is also a private room so we can be free to talk without fear of disturbing diners.
4. Anyone who should be invited?
Generally, a prospective bride can have more than one bridal shower, depending of the circle of friends he had. But not infrequently you know there is only 1 bridal shower because of the limitations of time owned. So it is better if we find out who his friend from the circle of the other and invited to the event, the bridal shower.
If you invite quite a lot, don't forget to ask them to RSVP the invitation.
5. How do I choose a theme?
Determine the theme is a bit tricky because it should reflect the personality of the bride-to-be. The most convenient way is to choose his favorite color. If you confusion, maybe you can ask the closest people such as his mom, brother, or even her partner. Better to ask than choose the wrong theme and ruin the show, isn't it?
When I do not feel any difficulty in determining the color because the friend often said “For me, pink is too girly.” Therefore, I choose the color orange as the theme of the bridal shower friends.
6. Such decorations are to be selected?
When it comes to decoration, you have to think about the budget (again). If you are already allocated a budget you to upgrade hire the services of party planner, of course you don't need to bother in the affairs of the decoration. But if the budget you're limited, there is no harm in it to try Do-It-Yourself Project.
7. When is the right time to hold a bridal shower?
Don't too tight in the hold a bridal shower. I suggest to hold the event at least 2 weeks up to 6 weeks before the day of H. Why? Usually the bride and groom will be more skittish in approaching d-day and it could make he did not enjoy the event that was held specifically for her.
Not infrequently I hear a story about some bride-to-be cried in occasion of her bridal shower (which was held 1 week earlier!) because the event that should be fun and exciting turned into an event vent.
Well, 7 this is the most fundamental that you should do when planning the event, the bridal shower for your closest friends. But you also have to prepare for the makeup show, you know, so the guests are not bored haha. Awaited the next article about games that can be played in the event, the bridal shower yes! Happy planning, girls!
1. Who should be her Host?
Maybe in ancient times, bridesmaids are required to hold this event for the friends. But it is not applicable in this day and age, anyone can hold the event, including siblings, or close family. The task of the host can say pretty much because he had to arrange when holding a bridal shower, anyone who is invited and also think about the road and the contents of the event so that everyone can enjoy the event.
When I decided to be a host at the event, the bridal shower the friends, I just realized that I only have one mutual friend with him. Thankfully a friend is willing to help me in contacting other friends.
2. What is the total budget you have?
Budget is the most important factor in making the event a bridal shower. Because later that budget will be allocated to locations, gift, cake, and decorations. Remember, budget is a sensitive issue, so you should ask around to other people for a reasonable price for an event bridal shower.
At that time, I invited about 14 people and every person is required to pay IDR 350 thousand. Of the total money collected, I began to allocate the budget, such as 50% will be spent on food, 25% for prizes (in the form of lingerie), 10% for presentation, 15% for the decorations I made for myself (Go DIY! Hihi).
3. Where you have to hold a bridal shower?
After knowing the total amount of money you have, start looking for location. For those, you can choose to have it anywhere! You don't need glued if they hold a bridal shower should be in a restaurant or cafe that is beautiful. If you and your friends want to hold in the Safari Park, go ahead!
But there are some things that should be considered such as the location of the place of residence of the guests. It is worth choosing a location that is known to many people so they do not confusion. Really not funny right if there are that dont come because it does not know the way. In addition, you should also consider whether you need a private room or not. My own time was held the event at the Penang Bistro, Grand Indonesia. The reason is in addition to the restaurant located in the heart of Jakarta, there is also a private room so we can be free to talk without fear of disturbing diners.
4. Anyone who should be invited?
Generally, a prospective bride can have more than one bridal shower, depending of the circle of friends he had. But not infrequently you know there is only 1 bridal shower because of the limitations of time owned. So it is better if we find out who his friend from the circle of the other and invited to the event, the bridal shower.
If you invite quite a lot, don't forget to ask them to RSVP the invitation.
5. How do I choose a theme?
Determine the theme is a bit tricky because it should reflect the personality of the bride-to-be. The most convenient way is to choose his favorite color. If you confusion, maybe you can ask the closest people such as his mom, brother, or even her partner. Better to ask than choose the wrong theme and ruin the show, isn't it?
When I do not feel any difficulty in determining the color because the friend often said “For me, pink is too girly.” Therefore, I choose the color orange as the theme of the bridal shower friends.
6. Such decorations are to be selected?
When it comes to decoration, you have to think about the budget (again). If you are already allocated a budget you to upgrade hire the services of party planner, of course you don't need to bother in the affairs of the decoration. But if the budget you're limited, there is no harm in it to try Do-It-Yourself Project.
7. When is the right time to hold a bridal shower?
Don't too tight in the hold a bridal shower. I suggest to hold the event at least 2 weeks up to 6 weeks before the day of H. Why? Usually the bride and groom will be more skittish in approaching d-day and it could make he did not enjoy the event that was held specifically for her.
Not infrequently I hear a story about some bride-to-be cried in occasion of her bridal shower (which was held 1 week earlier!) because the event that should be fun and exciting turned into an event vent.
Well, 7 this is the most fundamental that you should do when planning the event, the bridal shower for your closest friends. But you also have to prepare for the makeup show, you know, so the guests are not bored haha. Awaited the next article about games that can be played in the event, the bridal shower yes! Happy planning, girls!